It all started with baby no.1. I was never big into reading the books or asking every mother I came into contact with for advice, but I was a googler! I don't even want to look back over my google history, I'd either be arrested or put down! BUT good old google has that no judgement policy. She promises not to roll her eyes when you type in 'how do i get baby poo out of the carpet?' or run and tell her mates that you asked her 'would I be arrested if I leave baby in the car whilst I paid for petrol?' You can literally ask her anything and she will immediately direct you to a bunch of other like minded poor souls going through the same shit. Sad but comforting.